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10 Jul Evelyn’s Secrets: How to get a girl like me!

Hey guys! Today, I’m going to throw down some major dating secrets for all of you boys who are looking for a girlfriend and some secret insights in what we girls are looking for. Many people, I feel especially here in India, think badly of the word “dating”. I think if you ever want to meet the person of your dreams, then going out and meeting people is the only way to do so.

It’s always good to have a checklist, but in my opinion, finding the right partner isn’t really about going out there looking for a girl (or boy) based on some made-up image created in your head. Dating is about meeting great people and being the best version of yourself. “Become the person, the person you’re looking for, is looking for” is one of my favourite dating quotes and the clue to a successful relationship. I feel too many guys (and girls) these days are dating with the wrong intention and crazy expectation, so it’s pretty obvious why everyone’s complaining about not being able to find the right match or so many marriages go down the drain!

I’m no relationship guru, but of what I have learned so far from my own experience and watching my girl and guy friends I am happy to share with you the secret tips to a better dating life:

1. Reality check! Look in the mirror, not on your Instagram profile.

Nowadays we all have super distorted images of ourselves. Blame it on the filters or way too many likes on social media, but we think way too highly of ourselves and have raised our expectations for a perfect partner to insanity. We look for the perfect body, the perfect smile, the highest education, great popularity; but when we finally meet a person like this, our own flaws start to surface and we realise we don’t measure up. Look into the mirror more often. You are beautiful and unique, but you’re not perfect. I know we don’t like to hear this, but there simply is no perfect person. But you can always be the best version of yourself! Trust me, if you start to humble yourself, work on your inner being rather than your outer appearance, your priorities shift and you will attract an amazing partner into your life you would have never dared to dream of!

2. Always remember, she’s got a brother!

… and you don’t want to get your ass whooped for making a wrong move! For girls: Remember he’s got a mother, and she most likely will talk to everyone what happened between the two of you! Of course I don’t agree with forced marriages, but I’m not at all opposed to arranged dates, in fact I really like it when my friends and family set me up on a date. It gives the whole introduction a bit more seriousness and accountability, which instantly straightens up the intentions and brings love, good wishes and respect to the date – which are secret ingredients to success.

3. In it to win it!

If dating is “the game”, then marriage is winning the game! Keep your mind focused, your intentions clean. Yes, there will always be options. And in your life you will find yourself attracted to probably a hundred more great girls out there. But there is nothing more beautiful than commitment, a partner who always got your back, someone to do life with together! 

I hope all of you become the best versions of yourselves this year and fall crazy in love with an amazing life partner! Send me your wedding pictures 😉 And send some great guys my way too! I’m ready to settle down and start my life with someone who will love and treasure me as long as we shall live!


Give me your dating secrets in the COMMENTS here!


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  • Himanshu pokhariya
    Posted at 13:23h, 10 July Reply

    Hey miss I am 17 …wanna date me???😬😬😁

    • Evelyn Sharma
      Posted at 13:53h, 10 July Reply

      Ask me again in 5 years 😉

      • Jay Trivedi
        Posted at 14:10h, 10 July Reply

        Miss I loose confidence talking with girl due to my over weight body and also fear my classmates will tease me of talking with girl. Any Suggestion ?

        • Evelyn Sharma
          Posted at 16:07h, 10 July Reply

          If your intentions are clean and you just want to make new friends, I think the girls will love you for just being you and being honest 🙂 Be courageous 🙂

          • Jay Trivedi
            Posted at 17:08h, 10 July

            Thank You and one more thing thank you to read my comments on instagram on your videos in which you were playing piano and asked for some song request. Though you didn’t played mne requests but you did like my comments.And you play piano very well

      • Smit Kadvani
        Posted at 10:38h, 11 July Reply


      • Nraj
        Posted at 18:36h, 21 July Reply

        I am 20 lets meet on a date..

  • kirtan patel
    Posted at 14:04h, 10 July Reply

    Excellent tips….but still in indian culture it’s very hard to do all these things…..as parents are completely watching and keeping eye on everything…..even when I just see the posts in fb they would ask whose pics are those etc etc…..so its quit hard to go out alone…..and also if some relatives or someone know sees you they would ask 100 question….so still not tried it…😂

  • Sarthak
    Posted at 14:06h, 10 July Reply

    Would like to meet and share our thoughts if you would like to see me.

  • kirtan patel
    Posted at 14:06h, 10 July Reply

    Then what about dating me …lol 😂 😂 😂 😂 just joking😉😉

  • Hemant Bagul
    Posted at 14:23h, 10 July Reply

    Hi….evelyn I ask you for date with me will you?

  • Mmg Moktadi
    Posted at 14:42h, 10 July Reply

    ❤Evelyn❤ I have no secret about dating. Wanted to dating with you first time of my life & want to creating secret about dating then I want to winning this game. However! I don’t know how to this possible ?

  • Vaibhav
    Posted at 15:23h, 10 July Reply

    Heyy beautiful girl I’m vaibhav 18 years old from Amritsar i want to date you ☺️.

  • Vasu sharma
    Posted at 15:28h, 10 July Reply

    This article is really good.
    The basic principle as you said has been explained so nicely..be confident and be you..Thank you Evelyn for this piece..❤❤😇

    • Evelyn Sharma
      Posted at 16:03h, 10 July Reply

      🙂 I’m glad it spoke to you!

      • Hemant Bagul
        Posted at 12:14h, 11 July Reply

        Hey hi you never replied to me….

  • Himanshu
    Posted at 15:34h, 10 July Reply

    Evelyn sharma will you date me and be my 250grams girlfriend ? If you agree than revert me. I 😂😂

  • Priyamshu Tripathi
    Posted at 15:35h, 10 July Reply

    So much rules n ol…..In that case i wud like to date u…😂😂😂

  • Shivraj munje
    Posted at 15:36h, 10 July Reply

    Your are my dream girl
    Luv u so much

  • Sahil sawant
    Posted at 15:37h, 10 July Reply

    I once saw you at Bandra in party . I love to meet uh again.♥️ will you ?

    • Sahil sawant
      Posted at 15:41h, 10 July Reply

      And one more thing think so you like champagne with orange juice 🥂 😅

    • Sahil sawant
      Posted at 15:43h, 10 July Reply

      And one more thing I think so uh like champagne with orange juice 🥂😅

  • Sean
    Posted at 15:42h, 10 July Reply

    Still looking for my dream girl! Regards, Sean. X.

    • Evelyn Sharma
      Posted at 16:01h, 10 July Reply

      I pray you will find her, and when you do be the person she is looking for too 🙂

  • Aakash Saini
    Posted at 15:44h, 10 July Reply

    I can’t imagine of going out on a date with you because you’re out of my league nd i am 18 only…😅but i still wanna ask …can we?… Jk😂

  • Remington Steel
    Posted at 15:45h, 10 July Reply

    See I am sure at some point in time you would have asked this question to your girl friends or at a girls night out…”where are all the good men?” And then the obvious remark “they are either married or gay”…

    Problem is that Mr. Nice Guy never gets the shot at the most popular girl or the girl everyone desires…he never even gets to meet her. He is true to himself, knows his weaknesses and also his strengths…is genuine, caring, kind and compassionate….and is your average looking humble guy. He is the one who will love, respect and cherish you forever because he knows if he gets you how lucky he would be and will never take you for granted. But alas the popular or pretty girl always goes for the more flamboyant, in your face, chiseled body/looks (perfected by hrs of spending in the gym and at the salon), narcissist, VAIN and probably dumb as well man…and chances are he will always most certainly break her heart.

    And then this cycle will start again…”where all all the good men”?

    Maybe give the nice guy a chance…if you can look beyond the superficial things and dig deeper, he would be perfect…he deserves it:-)

    Mr. Nice Guy…

    • Evelyn Sharma
      Posted at 15:57h, 10 July Reply

      Hi Mr. Nice Guy 🙂 I wonder if that “popular pretty girl” herself would be a good choice to persue if she is too superficial to recognize a great guy and only complains? Seems she has not really understood what’s really important yet. Why don’t you look at a girl instead who is beautiful inside and out? I am sure she will love every humble, genuine and caring bit of you 🙂 xoE

  • Parth patel
    Posted at 15:48h, 10 July Reply

    You come with me one date miss

  • Sufian
    Posted at 15:51h, 10 July Reply

    Wanna go for a date

  • Tarun Luthra
    Posted at 15:54h, 10 July Reply

    hi evelyn. I’m your fan since I saw yjhd and in love with you since then. I’ve been through your dating secrets written above and luckily somehow I think the same about dating. check my Instagram and do tell me if I’m eligible to date you or not?
    p.s I’ll be the luckiest if I’ll get a chance to meet you.

  • Abhay Lohani
    Posted at 15:58h, 10 July Reply

    I have no as such dating secrets
    It’s just Evelyn is my dream..
    And it would be a dream come true if I get a chance to date her..,☺️

  • Asif Khan
    Posted at 15:59h, 10 July Reply

    Hi Evelyn,
    I’m Asif 24 years who wants to date you.
    Because you have always been my dream girl and I have been following you from long time on insta and I believe the principle you have set for us I can fulfill them……

  • Shubhamdhole
    Posted at 16:01h, 10 July Reply

    Hey Evelyn mam.
    I wanna date with you. Today is my birthday so I wish that you can date with me ….???.
    I’m your really biggest fan . and abhi tak toh nahi gaya hoon kisi ke saath date PR.
    So would you like to going date with me..??

  • Armaan Dafda
    Posted at 16:06h, 10 July Reply

    So when can I take this pretty gal out on a beautiful candle light dinner? Ops only candle light dinner , will make beautiful automatically😋😍😘

  • Yash darji
    Posted at 16:22h, 10 July Reply

    Hello mis Evelyn I’m 24 years old boy i wanna date with you can you accept my date request please 🙏😜

  • meet mistry
    Posted at 16:40h, 10 July Reply

    hey…Evelyn mami wanna date with you..
    Plz come

  • Atul Raghuvanshi
    Posted at 17:01h, 10 July Reply

    A very nice article. But the fact is money plays an important role in today’s world and if you are not earning tons of money its hard for you to end up with a decent girl.
    Matter of fact is guys are getting serious in relationships and its not the case with girls.
    I am 28 and I consider myself as committed person in any relationship. Now i know you are out of my league but…we find love in the most unpredictable places. Do you want to give it a try Evelyn ? Are you ready …?🙂

  • Ujjwal kumar
    Posted at 17:20h, 10 July Reply

    Hello Evelyn,
    You wanna date with me….???😶😶😅😅
    I’m 19 year old😐😀😀😀

  • Chetan lande
    Posted at 17:21h, 10 July Reply

    Hey Evelyn…m chetan from nagpur..i am 24 yr old…want to date with u…can u?😊

  • Parampreet singh
    Posted at 17:29h, 10 July Reply

    Mam I am just 17 you know i am working very hard in sports so that I become famous sportsman and marry you I know that this is impossible but I will never give up and meet you one day I really love you

  • Atul Raghuvanshi
    Posted at 17:35h, 10 July Reply

    Nicely written Evelyn. I too agree with Mr. Nice Guy. Moreover in today’s world money is the driving factor. It does not matter how committed you are or how much you can give in relationship. Also, what I personally feel is a girl will always go for the ” Bad boy” . Funny part is once the chase is over and she wins the guy, she wants to change him for “good”. Now you can shoot me if I am wrong, but at some point in time you must have done the bad boy chase yourself 😛 (not judging..haha).

    But anyways it never bothers me because I know what I have to offer and how to treat my lady..
    So here I am, 28, full of love & commitment and ready for all the challenges that comes along… are you ?? 😛

  • Sachin Handi
    Posted at 17:40h, 10 July Reply

    Hi evelyn, I am biggest fan of yours, you are so beautiful.
    I wanna ask you one thing,that is how to impress the girl like you? Can you tell me please? I like you so much dear..reply me as soon as possible…. i am waiting…..

  • Dhrupad Panchal
    Posted at 17:44h, 10 July Reply

    Hey miss u are soo much beautiful and hot😍🔥💋💯

    I just want to know that why girl doesn’t reply on chats …!!!and. How to impress girl who stranger but social media friend…!?:)

  • Munish
    Posted at 18:15h, 10 July Reply

    Hey miss i love ur voice and love u also ur’s beauty is like a white rose plz contact me for a date

  • Dylan Potter
    Posted at 18:18h, 10 July Reply

    Miss Sharma; your article is very inspiring, I thank you for this.

    But I am stuck with a question that tortures my soul day and night…If it is as simple as meeting the girl of dreams, then I need to know where to get the confidence from.

    I feel nervous to talk to girls for the first time, especially if we have not yet been acquainted; for I feel I am being indulgent-and the phrase just go up and say hello does not work; no matter how one says it, I feel (accidentally or not) that the intentions will automatically become clear from that act alone, and I fear that they should not instantly be obvious.

    So, basically, when you say meet and talk to many girls and you will find someone, I do not understand…how am I to meet these people?

    Thanks, from Dylan

    • Evelyn Sharma
      Posted at 23:38h, 10 July Reply

      My advice is: First, become the best version of yourself 🙂 Spend more time on that, rather than going out to look for girls. Girls will start noticing you if you are kind hearted, gentle mannered and always giving. I pray God will guide you and you will meet the most amazing woman one day and live a fulfilled married life with her! xoE

  • Sahaj
    Posted at 18:27h, 10 July Reply

    I want to date a girl, but my mistake is that I m caring. Each and every girl that I have met, till date, has left me, due to this reason. Please tell me some solution on this matter.

  • Ketan choudhary
    Posted at 19:24h, 10 July Reply

    Lara U became my biggest crush…From the day i have seen u in.’yeh jawaani hai deewani’
    U r just amazing with ur talents….ur insta uploads are jus wow….ur all pics r those…where i fall in love…So cant express myself to any of the girl except you…U r really really an wonderful lady to this universe..Love you alot evelyn mam😘

    • Evelyn Sharma
      Posted at 23:33h, 10 July Reply

      Thank you for such kind words 🙂 I’m so happy to hear this! <3 xoE

  • Akash Chhabra
    Posted at 19:32h, 10 July Reply

    “Promises are meant to be broken” this has broken many hearts and relationships obviously.
    So always remember that Promises aren’t made to be broken. 🙂
    Be honest !!
    It will be hard actually very hard to speak up the truth. But trust me it is the best thing you ll do to your partner or your date !!
    Do not make a promise if you know you ll break it !!
    If you haven’t got a date yet got out and meet people, speak up .
    Don’t let the fear of rejection stop you from asking out.
    Keep loving !!
    Keep smiling !!

    Akash Chhabra

    • Evelyn Sharma
      Posted at 23:32h, 10 July Reply

      Aw! I really like this thought Akash! 🙂

      • Akash Chhabra
        Posted at 12:51h, 11 July Reply

        Thankyou 🙂

  • Shubhamdhole
    Posted at 19:36h, 10 July Reply

    I have wanted you so much, so truly … that the entire universe has conspired for me to get you
    It is saying that if you really desire something from the heart … then the whole universe will work towards getting you that
    😘😘😘😘 @evelyn chal na jate hai date pe………???

  • Shubhamdhole
    Posted at 19:41h, 10 July Reply

    Evelyn Sharma: Iss Duniya Main Har Help Ke Peeche Ek Matlab Chupa Hota Hai. Meri Khushi Main Usko Kya Sukh Milta Hain?

    Mahaakshay Chakraborty: Isi Ko Toh Kehte Hain Unconditional Love, Apne Pyaar ko Uske Pyaar Se Milana Hi Toh Pyaar Hota Hai.

    Evelyn Sharma: Sapna Aisa Bhi Mat Dikhao Ki Khud Sapna Bhi Darr Jaae

    Evelyn Sharma: Main chahti hoon ki who mujhe ek din propose karein.

    Mahaakshay Chakraborty: Saath din ke andar Arjun aake aapko propose karega.

    Evelyn Sharma: Toh theekh hai. Your time starts now.

    Mahaakshay Chakraborty: Kaash main yeh tumhe samjha paata ki yeh saath din bhagwaan ke liye bhi kitne painful hote.

    Mohit Dutta to Evelyn Sharma: I love you.

  • Bhavesh
    Posted at 19:51h, 10 July Reply

    How can We common people date like you celebrity..!! We simple people just love to spend quality time on Mumbai beach like Juhu,Marnie line or Bandra orrr max to max good hotel.. I guess you will not impress with this kind of date with me…

  • Kinjal mistry
    Posted at 20:06h, 10 July Reply

    The only girl i want to date is you Evelyn. U r soo preety

  • Kinjal mistry
    Posted at 20:08h, 10 July Reply

    U are the most gorgeous natural beauty without any scissors… So simple and elegant.

  • Omkar Shinde
    Posted at 20:37h, 10 July Reply

    Haha! Evelyn on a Date😂😂😂
    Its a dream, even in my dreams.

  • Kinjal mistry
    Posted at 20:45h, 10 July Reply

    I love you evelyn. I love you soooo much

  • Daniel
    Posted at 21:09h, 10 July Reply

    I’m 20
    What should the age of your Perfect guy be according to you ?

  • Ravi Suthar
    Posted at 21:47h, 10 July Reply

    Hey mem i just want 2 tell u that u r soo cute and so lovely i m crazy fan of urs… Lv u so much mem.. Ur this post is soo helpfull I m shy kind of guy so plz help me set up with someone.. Thank u…

  • Tuhin Paul
    Posted at 22:45h, 10 July Reply

    This was something nice.
    But i have some opinions as well like. It has been on tons of occasions when i have gone out on a date and learnt about d other person well. And if we don’t try anything we will never have or develop d confidence. And yes one thing in today’s tym is quite correct dat we don’t actually give that much time in knowing ppl which leads to d breakups. Another point being wen we have our eyes closed then d sentence – “wrong ones say the right words” stands true. Lastly, i feel its about being more of a gentleman than being a boy and staying true and committed towards your partner.
    And thank you Evelyn for the nice insights and helping ppl by spreading d knowledge which you have 🙂

  • Anand
    Posted at 23:56h, 10 July Reply

    I do not have any girlfriends, I feel bad too, when I will get my dream queen, wish she is like you

  • Shailesh desai
    Posted at 00:02h, 11 July Reply

    You r so beautiful i like your thoughts and your beautiful heart to talk with alll tnx evelyn

  • Shreeyansh 3
    Posted at 07:46h, 11 July Reply

    Ma’am I have suffered so much talking to girl and girls don’t give shot to me. And when I am trying to talk they just turn around or ignore me.

  • Mario
    Posted at 08:25h, 11 July Reply

    Hallo die dame ,
    Really great adviice hope it can inspire the youth to be more sincere with thier love and commitment. I never felt so right while reading somthing it just captures esense of a good and health relationship.

    And yes mam i too am a very big admirer of you.Hope to see you in much bigger and greater roles. mam i kind of am a writer and i had this idea of a story on how i met evelyn .if i ever succeed in it i would like you to be the 1st person i share it with
    Alles gute

  • Himanchal Dwivedi
    Posted at 08:37h, 11 July Reply

    Hy evelyn, I m 21 wanna roll with me

  • Digvijay Singh tanwar
    Posted at 09:10h, 11 July Reply

    Hiii ma’am how are you I’m big fan of you
    I’m from ajmer, Rajasthan ma’am
    I want to meet u ma’am
    You are so beautiful ma’am

  • Subham Sushobhit
    Posted at 11:36h, 11 July Reply

    Hola Evelyn!

    I’m ardent fan of yours. I so wish to meet you someday and get to know you more. Your personality is what appeals to me the most and I love that smile of yours.
    Not a date, but more of an conversation over a cup of coffee/hot chocolate. *Blushes*

  • Akshay Yadav
    Posted at 11:37h, 11 July Reply

    Not looking for a gal like u
    Looking for u to be my gal. .
    I know typed such a funny n awkward thing but its true, 😁

  • Vishal Gupta
    Posted at 11:41h, 11 July Reply

    Hey Evelyn… I Love Uh so much… I jist want to date with u and no one else.. I love u, soooo so much…

  • Lorenzo
    Posted at 14:12h, 11 July Reply

    If you come to France I want to date you lol 😀
    Follow my instagram shahid0093
    Sorry for my English
    Born in France but made in India lol

  • Manish
    Posted at 14:19h, 11 July Reply

    Can you be my date @evelyn’s 😍

  • Devesh bhardwaj
    Posted at 15:33h, 11 July Reply

    Hyeee dear I am 20 do u date with me

  • Ben Miller
    Posted at 20:56h, 12 July Reply

    Happy Birthday Evelyn!!

    P.S. Date or no date I’m always willing to take you to get an American breakfast with hash browns again 😉 haha

  • Silva Bezawada
    Posted at 16:59h, 13 July Reply

    Whenever I’ll talk to a girl,I will talk in way like poetry,impressive,some what flirty as my intentions are strong to impress her,but they r thinking im kind of pervert..but I’m not what they r thinking.. I’m just trying genuine to my level best to impress but it’s not working..kindly suggest me how to talk with a girl like u cuzz I’m such a looser😢…

  • faizi
    Posted at 16:57h, 14 July Reply

    hey I need to date you
    what I want to do before date you

  • faizi
    Posted at 16:58h, 14 July Reply

    I love you

  • nemo
    Posted at 18:20h, 25 July Reply

    what kind of guy you would go for…..rich or highly educated?….btw you’re really a gorgeous woman….

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